Her one day trip with friends - what can i do?

abdada · 2015-03-22T15:21:54+00:00

You need more options. WTF are you oneitising over a coed for?

Get on your own path. Meet new women. She's no princess, stop treating her like one.

vandaalen · 2015-03-22T17:44:16+00:00

You can't control anybody but yourself. Stick to that. Learn how to become stoic. Develop abundance mentality and aloofness.

If you hate this "prick" chances are he's just better than you. Work on yourself and improve to a point where you develop self-confidence.

It's your girl's responsibility to behave properly in those kind of situations. If she is a slut and ends up taking the guy's load on her forehead, be a man and write him a thank you letter. He dodged a bullet for you.

Your relationship is fucked up if you are behaving in the way you are. The woman should need the man much more and not vice versa.

To quote Patrice O'Neal: The best possible relationship is when the woman loves the man but the man likes the woman.

Observe her behaviour after the trip. If it's strange in a way that she is withdrawing herself from you and becoming more distant your bells should go off. You are most likely up for some trickle truth then.

If you are worried like this about that trip you should also initially trust your gut and go into you and think about if you maybe saw a ton of red flags but chose to ignore then because of the oneitis you are suffering of.

If so, degrade her to plate status and go and fuck other women.

There are literally billions of females on this planet. Many of them better than your current one.

slater2j · 2015-03-22T15:42:36+00:00

Sounds like one-itis. You should go to meet some girls while she's gone.

[deleted] · 2015-03-22T15:29:47+00:00

I mean, she's going to party sometimes. This doesn't seem that bad. But I don't really have any advice for you.

I would never go with a female that she could hate in the same house for a night.

This is probably your problem.

frakkintoasterz · 2015-03-23T02:42:10+00:00

I don't see the issue if she's a plate. If she's a girlfriend, I could see the worry but honestly it sounds like you're being insecure and have a bad case of oneitis.

Title	Her one day trip with friends - what can i do?
Author	Dronitto
Upvotes	9
Comments	6
Date	March 22, 2015 3:12 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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