Do Looks Matter To Women? (The Harsh Truth)

2019-06-30T03:53:23+00:00

Depends on the female. Most go for looks but some go for chemistry and personality. It’s the same for men.

Aghayden · 2019-06-30T02:03:06+00:00

Tl;dr: Yes, looks matter, anyone who says otherwise is either trying to sell you something or has little personal experience with women.

However, although being below-average looking is a disadvantage in some ways, it can also be an advantage.

You might have to approach 3 times as many women to get a date as an average guy compared to someone who looks like a male model.

But the guy who looks like a male model is prone to fall into apathy - he can easily get laid with average girls, so he doesn't have much motivation to put in the hard work of overcoming his approach anxiety and ego to meet and attract the highest quality women.

I know plenty of really good looking guys who go out and occasionally get approached by women, but they don't get approached by the most beautiful women (maybe once every few months, but not reliably).

If, on the other hand, you're not that good looking and you can't easily get dates, you have emotional leverage to do whatever it takes to get the results you want. Because it's hard for you, you're more likely to go out and approach consistently.

Furthermore, if you're not very good looking, if success with women doesn't come easy to you, the process of learning game will be very fulfilling.

Nietzsche said, "Happiness is the feeling that power increases - that resistance is being overcome."

The fact that game is challenging for you makes it more rewarding, if you've always thought of yourself as someone who should be able to date any woman you want (because you're good looking) there isn't as much meaning behind learning game. But if it has been a struggle it will be extremely rewarding to disprove your limiting beliefs.

So, yes, looks matter but there's no benefit to feeling bitter about that. And in fact, there are significant advantages to being someone who dating didn't come easy to.

Title	Do Looks Matter To Women? (The Harsh Truth)
Author	Aghayden
Upvotes	4
Comments	2
Date	June 30, 2019 2:02 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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