Any advice? I have a long ingrained habit of not going after what I want when it comes to women.

drdavidbanner20 · 2019-06-30T17:54:41+00:00

First off, nice job on the other areas. Doing well in other areas of life gives you something to focus on when you hit a rough patch in your dating life. Also, there's a lot of crossover between success in one field and success in another. Now, you're just going to have to focus on your woman life to improve in it.

I'd start slow if it's that hard to get yourself to talk to chicks. Just say "hi" to a girl, and nothing more. This will convince your brain you're not going to hit on chicks, so it won't be as scary. Then when that becomes easy, add in a compliment. Then do some small talk/flirting. Then some small talk/flirting + asking if single. Then doing small talk/flirting + asking if single/asking her out. Take this in manageable steps and soon enough it won't be as big of a deal anymore.

Another strategy would be to chat with/flirt with women you're not attracted to. Then, work yourself up to hotter and hotter women. (Note: I would not ask out the women you're not attracted to, of course. It's just to get you comfortable with starting conversations with strangers).

Title	Any advice? I have a long ingrained habit of not going after what I want when it comes to women.
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Date	June 30, 2019 4:01 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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