“Conquer your anxieties, resolve your shame.” - Mark Manson. This is probably the best relationship advice I’ve read. It all starts with YOU. Most of us have this bullshit story we tell ourselves to why we can’t accomplish our goals. If you haven’t been told this let me be the one to tell you, YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH. You are good enough to do whatever you want in life. If it is something you cannot change example - your height or hairline, accept it and move the fuck on. But things you can change, your attitude, your fitness level, and lifestyle, fucking change them for the better, you intuitively know what you must change so do it. Meditation will greatly help you recognize your self limiting beliefs or statements you tell yourself that are irrational or holding you back. I’m short and balding but I pick up women like nobodies business so don’t let these beliefs hold you back. We are all a little bit different