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The 6 Archetypes of Ladies Men 🔥 (Pros + Cons)

JinTheUnleashed

August 1, 2019

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Title	The 6 Archetypes of Ladies Men 🔥 (Pros + Cons)
Author	JinTheUnleashed
Upvotes	16
Comments	17
Date	August 1, 2019 2:04 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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[–]Truxxis 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

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[–]UnleashDaJuice 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah guys, alot of dudes fall into this because of the whole goal to act nonchalant and unaffected/life of the party. But then its easy to end up the jester of the group for entertainment. That's why Jin and I push for duality and ebbs and flows in conversation. Positive and negative. So youre never just a one note person.

They can be attracted to your easy going and funny personality while also seeing you as a sexual being when you flip the switch to a more serious tone. Plus one can even help the other. The fact that you're funny should let you get away with way more risky/deep topics because they already see you as a bit lively. Kind of like comedians who make jokes about the most grim topics and get laughs (Dave Chappelle, Louis CK.).

So look at being the funny guy as more of a strength than a weakness. Use it to push the limits in conversation and really get some deep topics going.

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[–]JinTheUnleashed[S] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You're good at opening people up so that's an advantage we can utilize well.

Trust me it's a big advantage. Early on I was good at joking and actually getting good attraction and flirting, but I would get flakes. Sometimes even make outs and yet still, flakes. That kind of blew my mind.

Particularly one time a chick specifically pointed out how she was into Asians and not only was I Asian but it was the Bronx so Im like sweet I'm in, there's no Asians here. Theres no way this could fail. But later...Nada.

I'd get so caught up being a flirty dickhead since I was getting good feedback. It wasn't until I was honest and gave a serious dramatic side/story to myself on dates/cold approaches that then..things consistently got solid and I would see them again.

Here was my story to lock in a solid connection with women and basically guarantee second dates unless there was an outside variable like she was already on and off with an ex boyfriend. (You often can't out-compete that amount of leverage someone else already has with her) :

I'd be straight up and tell them I grew up with my pops sheltering us because we grew up in a bad neighborhood so I grew up shy in a rough environment; where I stuck out. I was the shy azn kid in the back. Then I got fat and had titties and used to get confused for a girl cause I had long ass fuckin hair. Then one rainy day I took off my soaked shirt, looked in the mirror and said to myself "damn son..this shit ain't papii chulo man." I took up a huge diet, cut out all sweets and fast food, soda. All at 12-13 yrs old. Started getting into sports, started reading books on how to attract women and just how people work socially/psychologically. It fascinated me and I eventually got hooked on trying to grow and push myself in everything. And now here I am..in front of you.

If at this point this chick's panties aren't soaked like Poseidons wife on a Friday night then you're fucking up man. You either pussied out and laughed or some goofy shit at the end or you didn't deliver it with enough *serious conviction. *

Look what I just did right there with my life story. Don't be a simpleton and just look at the words.

Beginning > Middle > End Rags to Riches Yin and Yang

I started off serious, revealing all the shittiness and bottom I started from. Got more personal about my own inner demons (everyone has them), then gave a moment of laughter with the titties and looking into the mirror story to kind of break up the seriousness and paint me in a different life while releasing the tension. Then ultimately I end with some serious passion but yet an upbeat open-ended ending with all this amazing potential.

Then just for the nice touch I bring it back to her. Most likely follow up by asking about her real upbringing and origins if she hasn't already related back by now. On a more serious level.

This is my own personal "routine." But really it's my honest life story. Painted and told in a way all humans can emotionally relate to. All of us have this.

Most movies start off at the bottom, then there's the rising progress, then the moment of seriousness as everything comes full circle, then finally that open-ended magical kind of gay ending where you leave with this upbeat kind of wonder for the future...That's where she fits into the plot.

Hobbies/Passions
Future Ambitions
Family
Childhood
Future Adventures
Struggles/Tragedies
Introspective
Sexuality

These are the 8 topics you should be trying to get more serious on.

These are the things that make us up and will create a connection different from what she has from everyone else. And guarantee you see her for a 2nd date unless she gets hit by a 🚌.

That said, even though you say your good at humor I have a feeling you may have trouble getting to that attraction flirty kind of humor/vibe. You said you get the whole lame funny friend label.

When your opening a chick up try shifting your humor to those 8 topics while adding more sexual nuance and serious intent at times.

It could be as simple as "oh wow you're from Ohio? I had a friend from there she was really sweet. (Pre-Selected) I'm actually from NYC (relating back personally) I think I'd probably be a bad influence on you." (Light sexual intent)

That's a very light subtle kind of early sexual flirting as opposed to just general humor. And it's on the 8 solid connection topics so you can create attraction while creating comfort simultaneously.

Instead of feeling like you need to do one before the other. You can do both.

Secondly, try mixing it up. Be more serious at times. Ebb and flow. Yin and Yang. In fact you can use your humor to do just that.

You can say something really serious and deadpan with intense eye contact. Building tension, then release by saying you were fucking around.

For example,

*Oh shit. You're a dancer? *Wait..Like a stripper? ** (lower your voice and end on a LOW PITCH at the end with serious eye contact, almost judgementally or very unpredicting)

When she says no. Let a big smile and say damn while turning your head in humorous disappointment. Laugh. Say your getting a divorce. Then get back to the more serious 8 topics chronologically. Relating back and forth.

Believe it or not when you do things like this you seperate yourself from other guys in her mind right away. You instantly show on a subconscious and sexual level that you can play with social tension like it's your little bitch. With zero fear, including sexual tension.

This immediately tells her that you can create situations normally and sexually all while being unaffected by social norms.

Complete God.

Last note: This was kind of long as shit but I was just on a long as shit train ride back from Brooklyn so I had plenty of time to write. ✏

Even though I wrote this to you I think it universally applies to anyone reading this who also feels like this is some shit that's particularly getting them stuck with women.

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