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Anyone know why a girl would randomly stop talking to and acting like I don't exist for no reason at all?

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August 12, 2019

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Title	Anyone know why a girl would randomly stop talking to and acting like I don't exist for no reason at all?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	13
Date	August 12, 2019 8:52 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/cp9q8d/anyone_know_why_a_girl_would_randomly_stop/
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[–][deleted] 6 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link

[–]Mechanix85 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Yeah the thing is she had a boyfriend at the time when that happened. Crazy? As in crazy for not asking her out? I'm sorry but like I said even before when I started talking to her she seemed fake and stuck in high school which sketched me out so she doesn't seem like a good person I don't like judging people I don't know but I tend to go by my gut. And don't get me wrong I do like checking her out but i'm not like a lot of guys i'm not going to go out with girl simply just because she looks good. If she's not a good person, has no personality and only has her looks to offer i'm not interested. That's why i've been single for awhile and not by choice. I'm not saying I don't care about looks but I want a girl who's genuine and cool, someone who I can connect with but I guess sadly that's a high standard in this day and age. And as far as making moves I did mention I wasn't confident.

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[–]Mechanix85 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]WaltDFaulkens 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]SpinPlates 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]Mechanix85 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]SpinPlates 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]Mechanix85 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm aware that female servers will be fake nice and flirty to get tips. Funny thing is I don't sit in her area, she's a waitress and she's never served me I usually sit at the bar and someone else serves me.

And sure an attractive guy can be intimidating to women. Just like super atttactive women can be intimidating to men. Since you mentioned hypergamy, you know how there's that article that's been going around where it says "studies" have shown women prefer men with a "dad bod". It's not that women "prefer" a "dad bod" it's simply guys with "dad bod" are seen as the "safer bet". Keep in mind i'm not saying i'm a male model or an Adonis or anything but i've been told i'm a good looking guy. Also this chick had a boyfriend who btw was pretty goofy looking. And honestly i'm not trying to get with this girl, her personality just kind of seems shitty. I'm just curious and confused as to why she stopped acknowledging me.

[–]SpinPlates 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link