Is anyone else kind of surprised how few attractive women realize they’re attractive?

kyleMaven · 2019-08-16T06:12:49+00:00

This is very true.. most of them don't realize it,they even have esteem issues.

quinnmcd · 2019-08-16T06:24:41+00:00

I think most girls have low self esteem. Society tells them to look a certain way (that’s nearly unattainable) and if they don’t look that then they are ugly. There’s 100s of ig models on girls explore pages that make them feel even worse about themselves.

Another important note I learned about women’s low self esteem is that you can’t help them build their self esteem up and they have a habit of only focusing on the negative.

IHaveAmazonPrime · 2019-08-16T10:53:30+00:00

Well, do you find yourself attractive? and there's your answer.

TheStrand23 · 2019-08-16T06:21:10+00:00

Recently went to Chicago, went to Buddy Guys Blues Bar.

I am not an overly attractive guy, but I noticed that I could have picked up any single woman in the club, had I not been with my sister.. if I also had what every woman in there lacked, confidence.

Realized that all the women in there were just looking for a man to be confident and lead. They too are insecure and have personal issues that a confident man can easily break through.

It wasn't me, I could break the ice start conversation and then my lack of confidence killed me...lol.

anxiouscompensation · 2019-08-16T22:15:03+00:00

I’ve noticed this too. When I’ve approached with confidence I’ve had multiple attractive girls say something like “I can’t believe such a cute guy would approach ME”. I take care of myself but objectively the girls were way more attractive than me but in their heads they were somehow below me.

Title	Is anyone else kind of surprised how few attractive women realize they’re attractive?
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Date	August 16, 2019 6:09 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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