I often take girl between 18-25 years. The younger the girls the less they're into blowjobs in my observation. I am in my mid thirties, currently living in Asia as a digital nomad, and I am practicing pickup for more than 10 years. Sarging at least two times a week. Pickup knowledge was one of the most helpful.

For me it's kinda lame to finger a girl. Boring. And have to be careful not to hurt them with my fingernails. Also feels kinda needlessly complicated to make the orgasm. A type of laziness. Instead I prefer to lick them. With my tongue there's not much that can go wrong. I enjoy making girls orgasm while licking first before progressing to sex. Really appropriate the girl, the view, the movements, the feel since meanwhile I can touch anything, giving here good feelings. If they came already from licking, it's a lot easier to make them orgasm from sex.

One ex-girlfriend of mine had a mutual oral obsession. We had an almost daily routine, almost more oral than sex.

However, what about girls that don't like to return the favor or significantly less often?

From my view if she's not into blowjobs that is not great but is dispensable. There's more important things such as if relationship and sex generally is good then it's ok.

However, is there some kind of power play involved? Is licking here if she doesn't return the favor often enough subconsciously perceived as a submissive, low value act by myself on her side? I personally don't see it this requiring equality.

The longer I am with the same girl, the more my attraction is fading over time. Partially that might be natural. After some time I need to find a new girl. That is very doable however I often preferred to keep the same girl longer since finding a high quality new girl is a time intense task. Requiring time which I nowadays rather invested into other areas of life. Hence I am asking this question to avoid this factor if it is a thing indeed.