I've been on this sub for a while now, and I'd like to share and validate with my fellow Seducer's on things that should be known about the whole seduction game. Feel free to read on, hopefully some insight would be shared where maybe some of us could add some knowledge to our own game.

Allow me to begin.

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Seduction is Latin for "lead astray" where you want someone to be lead into a direction you already have set for them.

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Ever since we were children, we all yearned to be seduced, we all wanted someone to do things for us and lead us into experiences. We've all played Seducers at a young age too, with our parents and friends where we constantly had to play into receiving love, affection, and attention from those we want it from the most. Recall the days where you'd do something in hopes of receiving something.

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This is early seduction, but with time it's important to work off of what you already started with, and assume yourself a position in what you want to achieve. By that, I mean get better at playing your cards and working off of what you feel comfortable with most.

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We're all seen the "F*ckboys" and "Fishlips", but we all yearn to understand them. Hence why you are even on this sub to begin with.

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I'd like to separate what I'm about to say next into 2 major parts.

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The first part being about yourself as an individual, and the second part being about the person you are trying to seduce.

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(You can skip the self part if you're sure of yourself, but Id like us all to agree in these sets of things, so please read on incase you believe I didn't touch on something properly!)

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Part 1; Yourself:

First of all, I NEED to ask you one question, and you MUST have an answer to it. I'm not expecting anyone to comment their answer, I just want you to be comfortable with yourself. You have to be comfortable with yourself otherwise you're just projecting what you feel onto the person you are trying to seduce and you'll end up coming out as "needy".

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What do you want?

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As broad as it sounds, it's up to you to put the pieces together. If you don't know how to answer this, I'll give you an example about myself.

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"I want to finish my university degree, I want to master my hobbies, I want to learn how to cook, I want to......)

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All these things help you in taking up your time and letting life happen. Instead of doing nothing all day, allow yourself to get to know yourself better. Experience things you'd like to experience or didn't even know you could experience. It's 2019 for f*cks sake, just watch something interesting that allows you to gain information, work off and expand your information, or build yourself from that information.

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(I heard a lot of people love a person who's handy in the kitchen)

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--> If you don't do this, how do you expect yourself to even have a personality? You're not a walking vessel, you're your own person who has their own beliefs and traits, doesn't matter where or how you started to think the way that you do, what's important is that you can actually manage a conversation with someone through having your own visions and things to stay and stand for rather than allowing your insecurities out.

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Girls and guys, please back me up here. How many times have you been out with a person where you feel like you're talking to sack of bricks?

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In other words, don't be that sack of bricks.

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People would love to hear about your day and life, just remember to keep your balance and not come out as a douche. Build yourself, even if it means you have to build yourself from scratch. It's all up to you to start bettering yourself and set standards for yourself.

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The moment you understand what you want, you have to ask yourself:

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How do I get it?

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If it requires work and dedication, then you're in fantastic luck because that's exactly what you need in life! A purpose!

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If you ever find yourself stuck at home doing nothing all day, take that as a sign of accomplishment rather than grief.

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"I CAN DO WHAT I WANT TODAY!!" (now that you know what you want, DO IT!)

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We all do things for other people, drop that "nice person" act and start caring about yourself. Trust me, it's not at all selfish to want your own wants and needs. Everyone has them anyway, so why should you repress them. Just because you have no one to do something with, that doesn't mean you can't do that something alone!

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I'll give you an example, the people who sit at Starbucks alone are probably the best ones to talk to. Unless you catch them in the middle of something important, they are people who are comfortable enough to be in public alone and enjoy themselves without the need of other people. They can be surrounded by people, and not have any anxiety towards them.

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Be your own person, but you can take things from other people's personalities and build them upon how you are comfortable.

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"I like how X is so confident, I'd like to be confident too. This is how I would be confident, it's not the same as how X is confident, but it's how I'd like to be confident which is what I like which is important to me if I want it to be."

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One last thing I'd like to discuss would be our insecurities. We all have insecurities, some more drastic than others, but you should know that they are all able to be turned down if not overcome. It's not an easy path to fix them, and finding them can be a worse search at times.

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Just tell yourself that you can do it. It's not in your head, it's not something wrong with you, it's not something that should take control of your life, you can overcome them.

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With that being said, I'll ask you this:

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What makes you feel anxious and in a loss of control?

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I'll give some examples:" Being called out, losing control, looking stupid, being imperfect.." Those are a couple common insecurities people have.

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Now that you know what they are, ask yourself this:

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How can I overcome them, or keep them from springing out in the wrong times?

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Practice makes perfect. You have social anxiety, find a place that you can sit and be around people, and with time you'll realize you are not out of control instead can be comfortable doing what you want in such situations.

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NO ONE LOOKS, COUNTS, AND KEEPS TABS on you but yourself.

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Human beings are selfish. We are all selfish. So keep that in mind every time you f*ck up, if they throw blows at you, take it with a light heart and throw some banter back.

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You're out with your friends at a restaurant, and you spill your drink.

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Friend X:"omg you're such a klutz"

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What do you do?

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Laugh it off.

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Your reply could be that of:"omg you're right I should've been aborted as a child."

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Sure that statement of mine was hefty, but through it you show that:" Yes, I did f*ck up, but these things happen and it's not that bad" rather than getting defensive and shook because of it.

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If you allow someone power over you, they WILL take that power. Humans are power loving wh*res, whether they show it or not, they strive to be better than the competition, but through showing them that you are above it by seeming unfazed while taking responsibility, you show maturity in the midst of chaos. Keep your chin up, we're all imperfect, and we all f*ck up, but who cares, right?

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Okay, so that part is so that you discover yourself. You MUST discover yourself, it's important for you in the long run.

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I'll be changing the mood of speech here on out, the only person you will ever truly listen to, is yourself. And the only time you will ever take action is upon validation and motivation. I'm sure you know what you could be doing differently, but you just don't want to do it.

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Part 2; Your Spouse.

Listen, I'll be continuing here based off Penetration of mind, and penetration of body which follows. If you're looking for one night stands, bring her home after the party, or get her to do sexual favors for you, all within one night,then you'll need to know and have a deep understanding of the core Seducer's beliefs which will be covered in this part of course.

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Recall what I asked earlier about what it is that you want. Did you reply to that with

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1- "I want a relationship"

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2-:"I wanna get laid".

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Both have a similar path, but one of them stops after sex exclusively.

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Let's begin.

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There are MANY ways you could meet someone knew that you would like to seduce. Whether you meet them through a friend, meet them at a bar, walk up to them in the park, sit next to them in class, they all have 1 major thing in common.

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First impressions. The importance behind this is that it will be used to judge you at first. What you wear, how you get introduced, what you smell like, how the whole start is, all of that has an affect on the person you are meeting. This is where you're charm and alluring personality that is projected through your confidence is sprung. The moral of the story, always take care of yourself because opportunity will happen when you least expect it.

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Before you approach ANYONE, all people agree upon a psychological reading. You see the person from the distance and work on your approach. You see them reading a book, it suggest A LOT about their character. It hints at what you should work off of more than anything else. They are now your Spouse.

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Who are they?

In the game of seduction, you should choose the person you are seducing properly. The game of seduction is only fun when your Spouse is reacting the way you want them to, likewise you are reacting to their words the way they want you to. They should have an affect on you. People who have a lot of time on their hands are usually the best Spouse since they have the most mental space that you can fill in for them. The introverts and timid people of society are usually the best to draw out as they are very susceptible to your seductions, the manly man is also one of the best Spouses as through your seductions you can draw out his insecurities. Likewise the more happy and comfortable someone would have the worse the seduction game for you would be, and whats fun about seducing someone with no imagination. Remember, they should want to bring out that inner desire of yours. What is a game if you're not having fun, right?

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This becomes a stage of fight for figuring out if the insecurities you draw out from them will have an affect on them. If you can sense a blush here or a sign of vulnerability then consider yourself able to penetrate your Spouse's mind.

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Allow them to feel comfortable around you.

Get close to them. Enter their lives appearing as a friend who is not too close to you, yet fascinates you. Never be too direct early on, you risk stirring up a resistance that wont be able to be lowered. At first there must be nothing of the seducer within you, it should come at an angle striking them by surprise. Indirectly aimed at them when they least expect it. Get their attention to stir their desire. Through your friendly conversation you will be able to discover them, know about them. Understand what they like, their background, their tastes, their behavior, their weaknesses. By spending time with them they will become more comfortable with you. Believing you are interested in their company will allow for them to lower their defenses. Once you are able to penetrate close enough, make a sudden move that wouldn't be taken fatefully. A touch here, a rabid comment there. That will make them wonder why you haven't made a move yet sparking them to think they are in control. Nothing more satisfying that making the seduced think they are the ones doing the seducing. The moment they think they are acting off of your accord, they will become resentful. Use the power of indirection as a tool you guard with your life . To make them come to you requires giving them space. Remember, too much attention early on sparks insecurity and gives the target to room for imagination. Let them think about you, wonder about you.

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Show them a bit of wrath/confusion.

After becoming closer and closer, make it so that you radiate a sense of mystery. Let one side of your personality show, but also send out some sign that you are not what you seem, make it paradoxical.

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To capture and hold their attention, you need to show attributes that go against your physical appearance, creating depth and mystery.

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Never appear to be undesirable.

If nobody wants you, then why would anyone want you? Only few are drawn to the people that others don't want. To draw your Spouse closer, you must create an aura of desirability. Let them see that you are wanted, even by the most different of people. If the people who desire you stem from "that emo kid" to "the popular kid" then just imagine what that makes you come out to be. It will shrink them in their vanity for them not to be desired by you. There is a saying that goes:"If you want the girl to like you, go after her sister." Same thing for men of course. Through creating love triangles, this forcefully triggers the:"I want them, why are they having them?". Through raising your own value, your become desired.

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Let them see something you have that they don't.

A perfectly satisfied person can't be seduced, remember that. Show them their life, through your eyes. Allow them to see that they are missing something in it, be it adventure, romance, thrill, spirituality, the list goes on and on.. And show them that you can fill that void. We all mask our true selves in society. We prefer to be more sure of ourselves, but when someone comes crushing our wall down showing us that they see through the mask, they will squirm. We begin to self doubt, and that is when the seducer steps in. Creating a need thus making us want to possess them more.

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Insinuation.

I hope everyone knows what this is on a spiritual level. This, is probably one of the most useful tools. The way to make someone realize what they lack and find that within you, is through insinuation. It's a sub language mean only to penetrate the unconscious mind that would awaken an idea allowing it to sprout in the user's mind. You plant a seed of thought with a bit of self doubt in your Spouse's brain and allow it to bloom on it's own making the person think it's their own idea. Class A manipulation at it's finest, I guess. An example would be: "Oh, you're not fun. jk, but you know". "You could just let loose once in a while", "Don't you have a sense of adventure?", these put into bedtime talk in a joking-fully suggestive manner will help plant your seed. (You know, the casual resentful sentences and slips of the tongue)

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Become one with them.

Most of us are locked in our own world, so for you to draw someone out of it, is to enter it, and slowly alter it. BY hypnotizing your Spouse by the mirroring presence you have, they will open up becoming vulnerable to your influence. Of all the seductive things to do, entering their spirit is the most devilish of all as it gives the Spouse the feeling that they are seducing you into becoming them. The feeling of them thinking you are under their spell. Remember, we're all narcissistic, so they will love you through themselves in you.

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Make them see a glimpse of the pleasures to come.

Find their insecurities, and strike them with thought of taking them there. Stimulate the curiosity and work off of their desire to reach the goal that you have set yourself in the middle of. The weakness portrayed are signals for you to get there and provide them a chase. Any sign of repression is your queue on hitting them with it and keep them tempted for more. Lust, if you would say.

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I'll be posting Part 2 within the next days. (If anyone is interested of-course)