A lot of guys make the mistake of asking a woman what she wants or what she likes. Then said guy does that, and she doesn't respond to that as he thought she would. Say you get a chick's number and you're talking to her on the phone, and she says all the things she likes in a guy. Example...

Says she like:

-A thoughtful guy

-A guy that holds a door open for her

-A guy that's well groomed and well dressed

-A guy that's not pushy, and doesn't force her to do things before she's ready

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So you do all these things, you take her out. You try to be a gentleman, and be respectful. You don't even try to kiss her on the date, because you don't wanna be pushy. She tells you she has a great time, and you leave the date feeling good. You had a good time as well, and feel it well. You're already thinking about asking her out for the 2nd date, it went so well.

You text her the next day and she doesn't text you back. You're like, what's up with this chick? And you wait and wait, and never get a text back. So now you're like I thought we had a good time, she was smiling the whole time, we had a good vibe, I don't get it.

This is an example of a typical date, where a guy did everything she said she liked, but couldn't get a 2nd date with the girl. Dude is confused by what went wrong.

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Fellas! This plays into what the title says. A woman can tell you what she *thinks* she likes, and she's being genuine. But, honestly she doesn't even know. But a woman does know what she "feels". Like say a woman says, she doesn't want to kiss a guy on the 1st date, and she hates when guys push for that. And you be respectful and don't push for it. And then she has a 1st date with a different guy (Guy #2) and that guy knows she doesn't like to be kissed on the 1st date, but he goes for the kiss anyways. And it's a passionate kiss, and it startles her, and it's unexpected. But she goes with it, because it feels good, and it's exciting to her. She will remember that kiss, from the 2nd guy, wayyyyy more than she remembers the 1st guy that did everything she said she "liked".

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Basically, make a woman feel something when you're with her. That is what she will remember from a date. Emotion is everything when it comes to women. Be your unique self, when you're with a woman. Don't try to be something you're not. If you're your unique self, she'll feel something because it will be something she's not used to, because we're all unique. That's why I don't preach canned lines, and crap like that. Being your unique self means, be how you are as if you were hanging out with one of your boys, acting natural. Don't try to be some perfect gentleman, because you think that's how you should be around a woman. It will come off boring, and predictable.

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Making her feel something could be anything from laughing and being funny, to telling her a story about something that was traumatic in your life, or something you're happy about that happened to you or something you accomplished. You can also get her to talk about something that she's passionate about that happened in her life. Just remember a woman won't be into you, if you don't evoke some kind of emotion from her. She'll attach that emotion she feels in that moment to you, and you've made your mark with her at that point going forward.

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