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Rubbing people the wrong way

gaznip · 2019-09-12T14:03:09+00:00

When it comes to stuff like cold approach pickup (going outside at night/day time with the sole purpose of talking to and trying to pick up women) why is it...

gaznip

September 12, 2019

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Title	Rubbing people the wrong way
Author	gaznip
Upvotes	2
Comments	2
Date	September 12, 2019 2:03 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/d38cuw/rubbing_people_the_wrong_way/
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[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Well; speaking as a woman. I don’t Think there’s anything wrong with wanting sex. The problem is that when men (or women) approach in a fashion that isn’t directly saying sex is wanted. When games are played to get it.

I love sex. But I don’t want to do it with men I don’t know, and am not in a relationship with. Men will play mind games/ date for sex, and many women will find it offensive. Women are played to get it and dropped when the man no longer wants sex. Women are very prideful when it comes to sex; so when we are used just for it. It becomes hurtful. And some are less logical about this. Some will try to ruin careers or do vile things if this is done to them. When it’s our own responsibility on who we take the risk on having sex with.

Thankfully I’ve never been used. But I’ve had my pride broken. And it’s not easy to ignore. Especially when it’s disregarded. That is why it’s looked down on.

Edit: if I was approached honestly I’d be very appreciative. A part would want to even do it since I haven’t got any in a whiles but because of my own boundaries I wouldn’t risk it. I know I want more than sex. I’d try my best to tell the person how appreciative I am for being direct and try to direct to someone I know who would want it.

[–]gaznip[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link