Hello Seddit,

Long time lurker, first time poster.

SEE TLDR...

I recently graduated college from a top tier fraternity and decided to move to Australia to explore my purpose and focus on my self development rather than devote my time to a graduate study. Sometimes I have the social abilities of fucking casanova, other times I feel as inept as a pre-RSD Tyler. I'd say that my main problem is consistency and I feel that my innate ability to socialize is high, but over the years I've allowed anxieties to overtake and make socializing a more difficult activity than it should be. In these field reports I will be posting logs every time I go out as a way to keep track of my progress and hopefully to motivate and help others who want to improve their social skills. My goal isn't to get laid, I've gotten laid before and I'll get laid again; getting laid will come and go. What I am seeking to achieve is a feeling of ease when it comes to socializing and consistency with my ability to go out, meet new people, network, and meet women. I will list the goal at the beginning of my field report and I am going to start small, very small. I am going to pretend I'm a virign that just found seddit and through all my previous success out the window- this is a clean slate; so lets start with tonight.

September 13th Friday-Melbourne Australia-Solo Game

-goal: open one girl

Went out to a nightclub I work at had some pre drinks, went to a popular bar in another area and asked a girl where a certain bar was. Roamed around hit a few different bars and found one I really liked 5 minutes from my house. At this club I found I said hi to another girl and had some quick banter with guys, but that was it. I feel pathetic writing this, like having a casual conversation with a stranger is so hard, but some days it is; other days I could have a conversation with anyone you put in front of me. This is where I am and this is what I have to work with. I am going to say that i failed my goal because when i say "open one girl" I want to get her name. My goal for the next time I go out will be to get one girls name and my goals will increase in intervals. The over all goal isn't to get a certain results, I'll get laid, I've gotten laid before and it'll happen again. My goal is to feel more comfortable and to be able to go out and CONSISTENTLY meet new people, girls and guys. Seeing that I just moved across the world I need to build my social circle and going out and gaming is going to be a great way to do it.

Next goal: Get one girls name

TLDR: 21 Year old graduated college was in top tier fraternity; lay count 19; moved to Australia on a whim.sometimes feel like I've got the social acquit of a genius, other times feel socially handicapped. I need to work on being more consistent with being social and approaching women. I am going to be posting weekly Field Reports more so to hold my self accountable and keep track of progress, but also to hopefully help others achieve their respective social goals. If anyone has any questions feel free to PM me.

V.L.S

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-Schreechineagle