I have said it time and again, don't just stick to one thing when it comes to improving your social skills particularly in the area of women and dating. Don't turn your nose up at online dating or just read one book or stick to just clubs and bars. Get good at all of it. Read everything you can get your hands on, try everything. You don't have to master it all in fact once you find the “ah-ha” moment you will actually eliminate the things that don't work and stick with the things that have the highest success rate FOR YOU.

A see so many guys complaining things don't work or only wanting to get good at one area and the truth of the matter is, that if you looked at more material it would help you better handle the area you spend most of your time in. You want to have access to all the tools. You know the old saying “it's better to have it and not need it” that’s just smart.

I did my first Bootcamp in 2014 because I knew it would take me to another level all around not just make me good at the cold approach and that wasn’t even where it ended for me as I still take time to absorb new material to this day. The time I spent reading and practicing and absorbing other material before my Bootcamp made it so I was really able to hit it and avoid wasting my instructor's time and mine on silly things that I could have googled or read up on. I was really able to get into the interactions and focus on being the best version of myself in each interaction.

The game isn’t stacked against you for any reason other than these two:

  1. You don't have the tools (or enough of them)

  2. Your mindset

That’s it. Sure some of us have to work a little harder than others. I did. You will gravitate towards certain things at first and often times they may not be what's best for you but what's popular in the community at the time. That’s ok. You still learned something and I guarantee that if you branch out and add more material and tools to your toolbox you will achieve far more success all around. Start with one thing and grow your overall knowledge THEN cut out the extra and start really honing the skills that work best for you.

The other great thing is that you will be able to handle so many more situations you may otherwise have failed at and guys will be amazed thinking your doing one amazing thing when in fact you are actually doing many things but because you have taken the time to really get them down its natural and almost effortless to you at this point.

Best of luck gentleman