This is an advice request/short review of my path, if anybodies interested in my way in more detail feel free to ask
Tldr on up to where im at Little over a year ago had a really shitty breakup, real rock bottom kinda shit that changed me, after a couple of pitty months started working on myself(inner game), half way through discovered you guys(and gals) and incorprated subjects from here,
Now at a point where i feel( and project) comfort in my skin and can do pretty well in natural senarios like work, day , social circle, vacation and more..
Now to the point, yesterday went out to a party with work people, played the field with three girls there and now im considering my next move,
Girl A : single for a while, but not really stable yet, she is working on it , which is what i think increased my attraction to her to the point where i can see us being exclusive, yet she plays games/shit-tests more then i can bear. So havnt made my balls to the wall move just yet.
Girl B: new at work, we really hit it off and have a really good chem, she has a bf but over a few conversations with her about the subject( before the party), i can understand that her relashenship doesnt have the standered bounderies..
Girl C: not much to say, broke up with her bf and is in a its complicated senario with him. I see her rarely and i guess because i constantly strive to improve my inner she noticed and became atrracted.
So i played A's games and made sure i didnt bomb any shit-tests, gave a bit attention to girl c here and there but i feel she is the least stable and i can have a better time with the first two, A became a lot less shit testy and showed signs of recpt( not the first time), yet since the party was going strong i didnt want to close the deal so she ended up leaving cause she had a ride,met up with B inside and ended up going home with her when the night ended.
So in conc, 1. Newer guys, inner game works. Any more questions or details? Hit me up
2.vets , way i see it there are a few ways to go from here, And with my current mind set i know which way im going(gotta stick with your gut yaknow) but i would like to get your input, if you were in my shoes(with you exp ofcourse) what would you do.
Im gonna take A out, talk to B that i dont feel right if we continued, nothing with C
Sorry for the long rant but would really be interested in your thoughts
Keep climbing boys
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