I had a hook up when I broke up with my ex now he doesn't want me back

2020-01-09T09:42:59+00:00

You miss that you had a relationship. You don't miss your boyfriend.

With your relationship you had familiarity, stability, security. Now you're coping with feeling like you'll never have that again. Don't worry, you will.

Hook up some more, let time pass, you'll move on. Remember the reasons you felt the need to break up in the first place. Sometimes it's just best to let the bridge burn behind you.

2020-01-09T10:08:03+00:00

your boyfriend is a manipulative bitch. This is how we act when we are either 1-really an authentic good person but is insecure because they felt like after a breakup the women should not be as sexually active due to thinking they still should have lingering feelings or 2-Trying to maintain a macho man status quo but ego takes a hit due to thinking they had you "in the bag" in hopes that you come back running with loyalty with a "senpai" mindset. Either way, its red flags everywhere. Like someone stated below, you miss having a relationship. But don't mix toxicity with spontaneous genuine love! Respect yourself as if you were a god.

quinnmcd · 2020-01-09T14:32:09+00:00

This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different:

A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept.
If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit.

No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you want to PM a mod to get their opinion on this thread, feel free to do so and they will still be able to weigh in.

For next time, remember that posts about a specific situational advice with a specific person are fine as field should be directed to /r/askSeddit, not to be confused with askReddit.

Title	I had a hook up when I broke up with my ex now he doesn't want me back
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Comments	5
Date	January 9, 2020 9:15 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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