Girl asked me to hang out at her place after matching last night on tinder.

Vinniikii · 2020-01-13T10:05:27+00:00

She’s probably inviting you to see if you can handle hanging out without being a creep. Maybe her rules are stricter for some guys than others.

Rather than worry about making the move, think about how to create atmosphere. You can talk yourself into anything when you’re horny. Make smart gestures without trying to force. If it never comes up, it never comes up.

But if you bring some tasty appetizers or a desert, if the movie is well-chosen, she might bring up her no hookup policy and how this evening fits into that.

Many women complain about endless sexual attention and difficulty finding friends. Dinner and movie could well be a homie, low stress plan and not a natural progression from table to couch to sex.

2020-01-13T12:03:23+00:00

Know what you want. Say what you want. If she wants what you want enjoy. If she wants anything less than you want, leave her alone.

LittlePandas101 · 2020-01-13T13:25:35+00:00

"No hookups" on Tinder really doesn't mean anything. Most girls put that there to scare of creepy dudes. A girl surely knows what can happen when watching a movie, she isn't that naïve. So just go for it, be cool, relaxed, and you'll be fine.

quinnmcd · 2020-01-13T15:25:38+00:00

This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different:

A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept.
If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit.

No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you want to PM a mod to get their opinion on this thread, feel free to do so and they will still be able to weigh in.

For next time, remember that posts about a specific situational advice with a specific person are fine as field should be directed to /r/askSeddit, not to be confused with askReddit.

Title	Girl asked me to hang out at her place after matching last night on tinder.
Author	adobeacrobatreader
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	January 13, 2020 9:47 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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