Solo night

smgtn · 2020-01-14T09:48:24+00:00

I've tried it a number of times, but I don't think it works. In UK for instance most bars don't even have chairs, so situations "I'm gonna sit next to that cute girl and chat her up" like in US pretty much don't exist. Also girls always go out in gangs, so you have a number of cock-blocking shit-testing friends to deal with which is exhausting. Going solo you will stand out whether you like it or not, because not many people do so.

noblesary · 2020-01-14T11:36:23+00:00

Go to a club and dance. Get a little drunk and just have a good time dancing. Girls will approach you if you are having a good time dancing. Occasionally look up and see if you make any eye contact with someone you are interested in. If someone looks interested in you, dance a little closer to them. You don't want to make it weird by pushing someone out of the way but when you approach make sure she is aware. If she still looks interested in you approach. You can also look around and see if you want to approach anyone who is sitting at the bar or hanging around the edges. However never expect to pick up someone. Go out thinking your gonna get drunk and dance and it's gonna be a good night and hey maybe if your lucky you will bring someone back.

quinnmcd · 2020-01-14T13:38:47+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

SpinPlates · 2020-01-14T07:51:41+00:00

I'm starting to prefer solo nights. Whenever I go out with my guys we just end up chatting amongst ourselves.

Don't play on your phone too much, screen time in public isn't going to benefit you. People watching is more beneficial. Make eye contact with women that look at you, and don't be afraid to strike up conversations with other men.

A classic rule of pick up that is even more important when soloing is self amusement do whatever you want to have a good time. Don't be out come dependent. Don't get frustrated if you can't find any good sets to open or if girls blow you off. Just go out for a beer, lurk around and enjoy yourself and see if you can work your way into a conversation or two. That's all I strive for when I solo.

Title	Solo night
Author	lammsors
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	January 14, 2020 5:43 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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