Hello to all,

I am a 24 year old, who has had/ still to some degree has a severe erectile dysfunction. That's probably what somehow triggered this - through this I have developed an immense anxiety to get physical / kiss during a date.

Let s say the part with the ED is dealt with.

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I have been intimate with 4 girls so far, which has been basically either under the influence of alcohol or during one short term relationship in which I kissed her on the 2nd/3rd date (cant remember) without a proper setting (she did not mind either).

Now I have a (2nd'ish) date coming, we are going to an exhibition and I have no idea how to go for the kiss there. I have read a lot and know a lot about di-carlo escalation ladder and I am going to take propranolol for the anxiety (first time, think about 10mg) but as I have no "situational" experience it will be very difficult to judge when/how to go for the kiss.

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The thing is I probably should get physical quickly or the "time-span" of going further (emotionally) is diminished so a bit of pressure.

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Thanks