So I went out this weekend in a little ski town with my friends. One friend was my single wing and another is dating someone so he was all about winging. Had a 4th but he bailed early.

Anyway, we go out for dinner at a bar, it’s super crowded but mostly older couples and a few girls around their early 30’s. Talked to one of them until I got boyfriended.

Two girls come in, sit next to us at the bar so we start talking to them and it’s bombing. Like hard. These girls are just super stale. Some guy comes up and talks to us so we just ignore the girls for a bit then go back for a few seconds before a moving back to our friends.

The leave. We hang for a bit then go to a new bar. These girls are there but now they come up to us and want to talk. Much more friendly now and making jokes to us. We talk for a bit and notice that the friendlier we get with them, the more they shut off. So we bail on them again and do our own thing.

The bar were at had almost no prospects besides these girls at first but started to fill up pretty quickly.

One friend kept buying me drinks despite me being super buzzed so I did end up getting drunk. But, I opened up pretty much every single group of girls in that bar at one point or another. Not sure how many there was since I lost count, but must have been 6-7 more. My friend and I were swinging. We never got shut down, we just kept on moving along and being scarce. I did get boyfriended again and but my friend said he went super beta after I left and was super upset and almost fought him but just made a huge fool of himself in front of his girl.

Start talking to some girls but at this point I’m pretty drunk but still talking. My friend said I was being mean so we left and went to another bar with more dancing.

Dance with a few girls in there and a girl on stage pulls me up. It’s the girls from the first bar. Start dancing with them. They then bail. I hang with my friend and circle the bar but there’s no one I’m interested in and my other friend is making out with a girl with ugly friends so me and the wing bail.

Outside the bar, the girls are out there talking to guys I can tell they don’t want to talk to and call me over. I grab them and they follow me back to our place. I text my friend and tell him to get back over ASAP since we have a sure thing.

My friend DJ’s and we dance a bit but these girls are oddly obsessed with Harry Style and get pissed any time my friend doesn’t play one direction or Harry styles. Keep in mind they’ve been ID’d be 3 bouncers so we know they’re at least 21 lol.

Basically, it just turned into a huge shit show and they end up leaving after 30 minutes.

Was one of the most confusing things ever but once I was sobered up and had some time to think, here’s what I was able to take away from it: - these girls were broken inside lol - I should have been more of an authority in the hotel - I should have asked them to leave at the first sign of them toying with us so I could go to sleep - straight up bailing on girls who aren’t being compliant isn’t a bad move. It worked well the entire night to the point where pulling them over was beyond easy. They basically just came with me without saying a thing. - once you get the ball rolling, it’s insanely easy to talk to every single girl in the bar. Between all the sets my friend and I opened, I probably talked with a solid 20 girls that night. - make it more clear to my friends I don’t want more drinks. I thought I was clear yet still ended up with drinks in my hands twice while I knew I was super buzzed and it would put me over. Skipping those two drinks would have put me in the mental capacity to close.