I know guys who are quiet about their life and attract women because they’re the “hot mysterious guy” and women want to figure out about them.

I also know guys who are naturally flamboyant and put their lives all over social media, and attract women maybe from the mere exposure effect and making it seem like they’re “making moves” (may be true or not).

I naturally lean more towards the latter, more “out there” and revealing more of my life and not keeping things held in.

I always want to copy success and this one guy I look up to is more reserved about his life but gets plenty of women supposedly. He gave me some simple tips.

But should you change the type of person you are ( going from friendly outgoing to more quiet secret badboy) because someones seeing success and you want to emulate it?

Or should you own your natural personality (in my case, being very out there and extraverted) and find success through who you are?