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Field Report: Taking a girl home after a dance this weekend

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February 16, 2020

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Title	Field Report: Taking a girl home after a dance this weekend
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	February 16, 2020 4:32 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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[–]anony40ishbalddad 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

[–]atleast4ships 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

My one suggestion that you can’t fix anyway: when she said “We aren’t doing anything, right?” Reply with “That depends, did you want to?” With a smile on your face. That may have been her hint right there.

Wait really? When you have said this in the past, she didn't say "ugh, you make up your mind you're the guy" ? In the past, what are some responses she gave to you when you said that?
"In future conversations start to do some playful jokes or sexual innuendo, that will help you gauge better where you are at. "

Just to help get my mind thinking about it, what are some specific example situations where you said sexual innuendo? What about what she just said made you realize you could make some sexual innuendo?

When I am walking and talking with a girl, generally I do tease her and get her to laugh. But I don't feel any sexual tension and don't know if I should be looking at her straight face to face more? Are there situations when you are walking with a girl you look to find a reason to look at her face to face?

[–]anony40ishbalddad 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]atleast4ships 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]anony40ishbalddad 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]atleast4ships 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]anony40ishbalddad 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

First off, just chill man. You are prepping so much that it’s causing you anxiety. Just play everything by ear. Instead of all this planning, go meditate. It’ll help you a ton. There is no right or wrong answer in any of thee situations. You clearly have a goal of getting laid and that is what’s not helping you. Stop with the agenda and just have a fun time with this girl. If you do a wrong answer, she’s not going to take off, it will probably just take longer to get laid. But it’ll happen eventually, she obviously likes you.

What you need to do in both of these scenarios is finally just get a nut sack and say, “Look, I’m totally into you. I’d love to kiss you but I don’t know how you feel about me.”

This will do the following: - She says, I just like you as a friend. Ok. Cool, you know where she sees you. You got friend zoned. Say “damn, that’s too bad. The offer is always on the table if you change your mind”.

She kisses you. Cool, advance it further, but not forcefully.
She says , I like you too. Then kiss her.

Good luck.