When I was seven years old I asked out my crush Suzie and she said no.

Like a little noob I ran crying to my mom and told her that Suzie didn't like me. My mom told me that if I was patient the right girl would come into my life, all I had to do was wait.

So I waited.

And waited some more..

Middle school flew by...

I graduated high school...

Then I was in college...

Yet no girls ever came up to me. No girls ever approached!

Was I just some measly poop stain, I thought to myself?

Do girls not like me? Am I ugly?

..

This is when I realized that all those years ago I was misled. My own momma, bless her soul, gave me advice that was from the female dating perspective.

Good things only come to women that wait, not men.

A male's dating strategy is not to wait, but to pursue the women that are waiting for man to do so.

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For all those of you who are under the belief that by waiting to get started on approaching or dating, good things are coming... I invite you to listen to me debunk this myth.

Maybe, unlike me, you won't lose years of time.