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[–]yycmang 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Now who told you to be a simp or nice guy? Look man stop all that pity party shit....pussy is not a charitable donation so it’s not gonna work. Change your vibe, your mindset....start looking at yourself from the third person and ask yourself are you the type of person you would want to be around? You are somebody! You just have to become it!
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Look at my posts and all of the responses. I asked how could I be more confident and put myself first (be a fuckboy type) and all I got was hate and people saying it doesn't work and the same old bullshit about how girls want nice guys who treat them good and girls don't care about looks. All lies. People on reddit don't know shit none of us get sex or anything we are all loners, nerds, depressed people and that's the truth. normal people don't end up on reddit. I am worthless to girls they've never crushed on me or even see me as a person. Fuck that. I'm done just being an attention give to girls while they chase after some fuckboy or whatever. I'm too ugly to get a girlfriend or sex otherwise it would have happened already. So yeah, I'm done. Because I was unlucky at birth I basically just got rejected by females as a whole. Basically just seen as worthless by women. I'm done.
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I don't need to improve. I don't care what society expects of me really. I enjoy life for the most part. Live how I want. I don't know what career I want but once i do I will pursue it no matter what. I plan to own property and I have some plans and ambitions set up. I love my friends, I have a great time with them, to the point I am crying in tears. A lot is good in my life and I just need time to sort stuff out. I was working out until this quarantine happened.
Here's the problem with your advice (that everyone gives by the way) is that it's SEX and a connection with the opposite sex. One of the CORE basics of life and human necessity. Our bodies literally program us to want sex basically everyday. I can't just ignore girls and sex. I tried to for years but when I'm the only virgin in my friend group, and everyone else is off having sex and posting stuff online I am just infinitely left out. For no reason because I am not hideously ugly but I guess I am not enough for girls as they feel entitled to fucking Justin Beiber and therefore I am literally worthless. If I was dying on the street girls would walk past on their phone because I am just some fucking ugly nobody.
[–]lunatxcc 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
look into rsd. dont agree w all of it but if it clicks
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What's RSD?
[–]lunatxcc 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Real Social Dynamics. They have a lot of content on yt
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What do they do? I already said I am done with girls. I am not enough. I don't care anymore. I'm done.
[–]lunatxcc 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
thats cool, but i know you are enough. find out what they do yourself if you're interested. if not, thats also cool. personally its helped me greatly in the mindset arena. but idk. do what u want man, its ur life
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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (31 children) | Copy Link
Forget about girls for a little while and try to fix your mentality and lifestyle.
Did that for most of my life. Never got me anywhere.
Find a good hairstylist who can give you a haircut that suits you. Upgrade your wardrobe. Maintain excellent hygiene and grooming.
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[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (29 children) | Copy Link
I don't give a shit. Who do girls even think they are? Spend their whole day on their phones posting stuff for attention. It's pathetic. I don't care what they think. They hate me because I don't look like freaking Justin Bieber but I don't even care anymore. Young women aren't even women anymore they're just a weird species that is addicted to attention and feel entitled to everything.
I DON'T CARE. THEY HATE ME BECAUSE OF HOW I LOOK. FINE. LET THEM OFF.
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[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (27 children) | Copy Link
They don't owe you shit.
Yes. I know. I have stated that.
But sure it's much easier to blame them for your inadequacies and write them all off as shallow than it is to actually become a better version of yourself.
No because when zero girls ever like you or are into you it isn't your fault. It's not girls fault either but yes girls are SHALLOW they basically consider me worthless because of my appearance.
Don't dive down that rabbit hole man.
What rabbit hole?
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[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (25 children) | Copy Link
Sure you've stated that, but your comments all have a resentful connotation towards women for your circumstances.
Doesn't mean I am entitled to sex also yeah, I am gonna be resentful to a group of people that consider me worthless just because of my appearance. Of course I am not gonna think fondly of those people.
Nope. It's because you're needy and have a low self esteem. I know plenty of ugly guys who have (sometimes very attractive) girls.
Either they are rich, you are 30+ years of age or you're just lying like everyone on reddit does.
The rabbit hole of blaming your appearance and girls being shallow for your lack of success. It's the same rabbit hole incels go down.
No because they hate women whereas I just wanna stop trying to date or have sex and accept I'll be single and a virgin forever.
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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (23 children) | Copy Link
They are attracted men who are bold and confident.
It's just true dude, okay. When girls are young and attractive they just sleep around and run through guys like socks but then they mature and go for some nice guy with a good job because that's a nice, comfortable life. I ain't ever gonna be that guy, okay?
I'm allowed to wallow in self pity. It's bullshit to be born instantly defeated just because I ain't 10/10. Sick of this shit.
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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I already work out. Well, I did until this quarantine at least.
[–][deleted] 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I don't have a bitch attitude. I am just done. It's quite mature really.
[–][deleted] 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That doesn't really make any sense.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think you’re putting waaaaayyy too much pressure on yourself. Just let things happen. If you’re going on a night out and if you happen to see a hot girl you like, then go for it! If it goes well then congrats!!! If it doesn’t then don’t put too much meaning on it. You are in your late teen ONLY. Doesn’t really matter when you’ll get your first, because trust me, it will happen! Just relax bro! Study/work, exercise, enjoy life
I feel you bro I’m in a similar position and like damn it’s not even worth the extreme effort I feel you if you wanna talk Reddit chat me (I’m also around the same age as you)
[–]pubbisanon -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ok.
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