Woke up today and made it a goal to approach this cute asian Walgreens cashier and get her #. I saw her twice in the past month and pussied out on approaching her twice. As I was hyping myself up to finally fucking go through with it today, i realized she isnt working at the walgreens today as I get in there. So i just buy some chips and as I went to pay, I aslo realized that i dropped my credit card along the way. I freak out and run back my route back home in a frenzy to look for where I think I dropped it (some bum asked me for the time and i dropped it while looking through my pockets). Surpisingly, someone placed it in a visible area within the park and I found it! There was cute asian girl nearby and I asked if she found it. She said, "no" but i took this opportunity to spark conversation. After 3-4 minutes of talking, I get her number!!! It felt so natural and not forced. Just a part of everyday activities.

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I realized today's situation is analogous to how I should be approaching. I been approaching women the wrong way my whole life... Instead of proactively going out my way to approach women throughout the day, it should be a side task. They seem to sense the desperation if you make them your only goal. Approaching women/men should be a part of your everyday activities, not the sole activity itself.