This will sound like humble bragging but I swear natural game works like magic. For the past few months, I've instilled a great level of discipline in my career and health, added parkour and skateboarding to my usual lifting routine, I bike everywhere now, and I stopped porn cold turkey, masturbate only once a week or so.

Believe it or not, I do this solely for myself, I ignore any external validation and consider it poison that would make me care more about what people think. I genuinely enjoy my hobbies so much that successful female interactions pale in comparison, so that's where I get my abundance. I got my first plate a few weeks ago and she's great, pleasant and submissive.

What I'm having trouble with is turning situations to my advantage. A good example happened today where a female friend of mine invited me to her going away party, where it was basically six HB7's and 8's, entitled waspy white girls, in a bar bored of each other and flirting with the fact that I'm attractive. I got told "You've gotten so muscular from last time I saw you!" and "I'm gonna slap you, stop being so handsome" and "let me take a picture of you two, we'll send it to your brother to freak him out" and "With these eyes you must be so trustable though" and more subtle comments. There was a girl there, very cute but very conspicuously fake, laughing at everything I said for no reason and going through major emotional rollercoasters like getting too concerned when I said I might be going back home for the summer.

It all felt like I wasn't in control, that I, believe it or not, was a piece of meat they were toying with and will forget tomorrow as opposed to an alpha male they wanted commitment from. I ignored the girl, though I liked her face, because it felt like a drama pit, they were texting each other and I didn't want to date the girl and have her broadcast what I did or didn't do to all the group, including the female friend. Should I have just singled the girl out and went to another bar and not care about them talking or did I do the right thing by not falling into a validate-me trap where she'd flirt only enough to know I'm down then pull away?

Another thing I want to ask about: I honestly don't feel sexually attracted to a girl if she's being fake and uninteresting. I need to connect with her on a mental level before taking it to the next level. This makes my game very non-sexual at the start, just kino and intense eye contact but no verbal escalation. Are these remnants of BP conditioning and should I get more comfortable fucking girls I don't know so well or should I keep my game as is and hope for the best?

I would have never brushed the surface of getting to where I am now if it weren't for TRP so I owe it all to you guys. Hoping you can help me figure out how to deal with it now.