Im not the type that can easily seduce anyone at the bar or tinder. But I am the type of some ladies, and when I meet my type I dont even need to try any seduction or game, as long as I dont act desperate or screw up totally I got her attraction by default.

If its too hard to attract someone, it means you are focusing on wrong type of girl.

Know who you are and know what kind of girls are attracted to your type and focus ONLY on them. This is how marketing and sales is done, you focus on a specific group to succeed.