Dating a shy girl as an extrovert

2020-06-17T12:23:22+00:00

If she's genuinely shy you'd have to slowly get her to open up. You also have to consider other factors like, how open minded is she? If shes a stubborn type there is little to no use.

It also depends on how much you like her. I generally refrain from trying to change anyone. I assume the way I met you is the way you'll remain. Yes, people do change, but it's not my responsibility to change anyone especially since change only happened when the person wants to change. Does she want to change? And if not are you willing to stifle yourself for her? If not maybe let her go.

For the future I recommend making a list of qualities you prefer in a women, and looking for these qualities while dating. This will prevent situations like these where you're emotionally invested for a year and now have to think of whether or not you guys will even work.

2020-06-17T10:58:05+00:00

That tends to be quite tricky.

Following closely

quinnmcd · 2020-06-17T13:59:13+00:00

This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different:

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Title	Dating a shy girl as an extrovert
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Upvotes	6
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Date	June 17, 2020 9:47 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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