Came out pan to my wife

quinnmcd · 2020-06-20T16:04:44+00:00

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SmarterThanYinz · 2020-06-20T03:55:29+00:00

When I came out to my ex, he said he was sporting but he didn’t act like it. I could never pinpoint why. I think it is because he never asked. He never asked me what it was that I needed to feel fulfilled and satisfied and like I was living my true identity. And I was still coming out to myself in a way so I wasn’t really sure what I needed. So I’m no expert here, but in retrospect one thing I wish my ex has been comfortable with was going out together and allowing me to flirt with anybody. I just needed to feel that freedom of being able to connect with other human beings on an emotional level. I wanted to feel wanted an attractive and make someone else feel that way too - within limits. I am pan and everyone is different but I get like a “high” from emotional connection that turns me on and makes me feel whole. Maybe you could approach her with the idea of going out and her letting you look at and talk with other people but you only go home with her.

Title	Came out pan to my wife
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Date	June 20, 2020 2:27 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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