Yesterday’s night was a great test of how to approach a group and get locked in.

Went out by myself since all friends, wingman and such are either in different city or were too tired to go wilding.

I went to a bar first with the mindset of just wanting a beer and see if there was anything interesting. I get in and they told me service at tables only. I spot a group of 3 cuties in a sofa next to the bar. No hesitation, I sit my ass in the adjacent sofa right away. They shit test saying they are waiting for more friends and I can’t sit there, I push that to the side saying there is always room for one more. And I’m in. I get direct non-stop validation from 2 of the girls while the third one stay in retreat. We chitchat and the more we talk the more they appears to be player type girls too. I don’t bring much personality in because they already have their dynamic so I tag along. At one point I end up with just one of them. The convo is light-hearted, actually more on the fun side than seduction. Eventually the quiet one go talk to a group of guys and will spend the rest of the time there. So I am with these 2 girls with high energy state that can be unpredictable (like move across the bar in the middle of a convo because xyz, bring another group of guys in and just let me there with them while they go outside) but they say I am cool so I don’t stress on that.

Long story short, NC two of them. Could probably go further but didn’t went all in. (their lvl of energy>my chill mindset) Didn’t build enough rapport with the third one and the after party was at her place, despite the effort of her friend to keep me in she blown me out when setting logistics. The one saying I was cool switch her interest to the barman. Lesson: chose your target in the group and focus on her while entertaining ALL of her friends too. Bring your own intensity. Not sure about this one but: don’t let them set a rigid frame: if they go in a funny mode brings them back to seduction at some point.

Any comments, remarks? Peace!