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[–]thepropounder 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ahh I'm in the same situation myself. I'm by no means an expert but maybe you should have been more polarizing? I'm hoping someone else can give you some advice here as that would benefit me as well
[–]DtS40 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for the input! That’s what I think I’ve messed up on tbh, I think closing is one of my weaknesses. Missed many opportunities being too passive.
[–]KnightSwan 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nothing wrong with being persistent as long as she texts back. But if you ask her out and she doesn’t respond, then you ask her out the next week and she still doesn’t respond, then I’d just delete them as a contact. That way I’m no longer wasting my time thinking about if they’ll ever text back.
If you want her to respond after she stops. You can always try to get her to reinvest with a text like “ Did you get kidnapped” or “ I got arrested in South America again, send money”
[–]rickyroyal37 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Go have fun with the other girls. Focusing on one girl will always cause frustration when she doesn't behave the way you want.
When you start creating a fun lifestyle for yourself you'll notice girls will start hitting you up when they don't hear from you for a while or you can hit her up in couple weeks coming with a cup full of abundance and charisma and try again.
It doesn't matter if she's a 10, if she feels like your needy for her she'll blow you off.
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