Video LINK: Date Night - She didn't answer my first text message...

Persistence is something that's very important to have in your life and I think it's something that's been greatly misunderstood. If you don't want to be a leaf in the wind you have to stand up for yourself and what you want.There's no real trick or ''strategy'' behind persistence rather it's about exercising courage and heart. When you do that the ''how to'' will find it's natural way! Like a boxer who finds the courage to finish a fight in the last round.

This is a video (VLOG) of me meeting up with a girl who ignored me initially and eventually came out to meet me. Her explanation was that she ''just felt'' it today and it's always important to remind yourself that women are driven by emotion and feeling. That most of the time they'll just do what feels good in the moment rather than what the next ''logical'' conclusion is.

Ultimately you want to find a way to ''communicate'' with their feelings and I find that the best way to do that is by humor, tension and unpredictability. These skills come hard earned from trial and error and are born out of the experience that you gain while meeting women.

The older I get it seems like meeting women is more about embracing the chaos and really learning to accept the flow ''what is going on''.

Most of us have a mental image of what we want to happen, and we work hard to make that mental image manifest but in the end what happens is what happens, and no matter what happens what's important is to be at peace with that.

You never know if you're going to get laid or not... It's like going outside without checking the weather app. It could be sunny.. Rainy.. Or windy... So rather than focusing on controlling the weather it's more important to focus on yourself. On actually having fun and creating a good time that will leave you satisfied no matter what happens.

As I'm writing this it just started raining and we have had 30 degrees here every day with no sign of rain. Oh..... The irony ;)

Cheers brothers!