How should I go about asking this girl out for a date?

2020-08-09T11:53:32+00:00

You are overthinking this, and I can tell you have little confidence in yourself with this ‘she’s out of my league’ nonsense. She threw herself at you and you still can’t see your own value lol. You’re looking for a strategy that won’t fail but no one here can provide you with anything that’s going to guarantee success. Shoot her a text message that says ‘hey do you want to grab drinks next Thursday?’ (Or whichever date you prefer). She can either say yes or no. I don’t encourage you to focus on this one girl, you should diversity and have at least other girls you can text and make plans with. Shit is literally a numbers game

2020-08-09T13:45:02+00:00

Don't go to a bar or club with her, you already made out with her and have her number. Have a coffee with her or do any activity were you can talk to each other. Something you enjoy.

norwegiandoggo · 2020-08-09T12:35:24+00:00

If you already think she's out of your league then you have no chance. It will influence your actions and what you say. She will pick up on that and think you're right. That you are not really in her league. She will dump your ass once she realizes this

Spirit_mert · 2020-08-09T13:55:37+00:00

Keep it casual this time around, go slow. As someone else said, coffe seems like a good choice. Try getting to know her. Talk about life.

Also scrub the mentality of she is out of my leauge when you are interacting with her. Woman likes confidence, even if you don't have it, just fake it.

Remember, you already made out with the hottie, this only gets better! :)

quinnmcd · 2020-08-09T15:37:10+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like:

How do I approach?
How do I get a number?
How do I talk to girls at college?
How/When do I kiss a girl?
Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

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Title	How should I go about asking this girl out for a date?
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Date	August 9, 2020 11:13 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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