~ archived since 2018 ~
Popular
Other
[deleted]
[–]studsjr 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would say it's not a good idea. Usually people are at the gym to work out. I hate using a broad brush here but I don't think people are at the gym to find a date. Most times they're sweaty and in a zone.
[–]Higheroctopus 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If you're already in to fitness and see someone regularly at the gym you can approach them in a friendly manner but dont expect much since people go to workout there and be focused. If they're doing deadlifts they're probably not gonna be in the mood to talk at that very moment. If there fam is around it's best just to avoid interactions , its alot to deal with if you're not invested in the person
[–]studsjr 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly, if you're there and possibly you make eye contact with the same girl a few times then maybe its OK to approach her. But you should never walk up to a girl in a position of them working out and saying hey i really like how you do those bicep curls
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Can you? Yes you can.
Should you? Ehhhhhhhh its very hard and is this weird blend of daygame and social game. Like are strangers but you will probably see them again. So best to go indirect as much as fuckin possible and see if there is interest.
[–]quinnmcd[M] [score hidden] 5 years ago stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link
This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.
Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?
As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.created by /u/dream-hunter
[–]studsjr 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Higheroctopus 2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]studsjr 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]quinnmcd[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link