Hey guys, I'm a bit confused here, things were going well with this girl and now she's flaking.. Long story short,
19yo girl (I'm 24), met her just outside the bar, got her number. Short 1st date went well, nice kino, kisses. Then another one in a few days (just logistics in between) - we went to the activities park with ropes and stuff (I had to arrange in advance so I've paid for this one..) - then had wine and cheese I had in my backpack, while laying on a grass making out heavily. Her parents called her back because it was a bit late, but anyway I thought we'll go to my place next time then. She said there :
she -blah blah how things worked out that night in the bar
me - how?
-really good I met you
and I mentioned I was going somewhere next weekend and she was like "oh yeah I can go with you!". So all seemed good.
Then we only exchanged couple pictures from the park and she once messaged me asking how I was doing. attaching full conversations because I may have said something wrong there ... they were not in english so don't pay close attention to specific words, just translating the meaning.
me -just got home, gotta cook dinner. when are you gonna cook for me?
she -haha tricky(crafty) you! some day
-why tricky? it's a win-win, I like good food and you... well your mum told you how to win your way to men's heart (we talked about this before how her mom was teaching her how to cook and that she should be good at it to get married)
-haha yes she did
Then I send her another pic from 1st date.
she -haha first "date" :)
me -in quotes?no more for you then
-I'm not sure if it was a date or not (wtf?)
-yeah right total waste of time
-haha you everything is a joke with you
Then she say's she's with her friends celebrating an exam or something at her house
me -have fun! why am I not invited?
she -I thought you were working! next time you'll be with us
it was late, so then i just go
-ok have fuun good night
-good night my friend :)
-Nah, friendship is not gonna work out for us
-ok tell me what is going to work out for us then when you wake up (this text was like 3am)
-cute beautiful babies may (I've been thinking what to say and only came up with this)
-I was not expecting this :)
Then in a few days I texted her something like
me -wine tonight 7 pm?
she - I'm outta town :(
-too bad, missing a good time.I'll leave it to you to plan for next one.
-okay good :)
Then I fuck up and text her again in 2 days
me - how's the weekend?
she - no weekend, I'm studying for tomorrow :(
-ok I'll let you study then
That was yesterday, she mentioned the exams she was preparing to, but still one-word responses? Does not look good to me. I've been out the whole weekend and posted a few pics doing different activities and with a group of friends - she liked them all in a row, lol. But still seems like flake.
Was my texting that bad she lost the attraction? Where could've I done better? Should I wait more and try to schedule once again and if she flakes then next?
Thanks for reading and you help
inb4 I've read the sidebar
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