It just hit me that this summer during kayak excursion a girl might have asked me to go away from the main group just the two of us. She pointed out that some rocks on a small island along our route seemed like a good place for a sunbath. I just agreed and didn't thought of or acted on it any further. Maybe becouse I often see girls as something you invest effort in order to be noticed. The idea of her spontaneously asking me somthing like that was to far away in my mind