I think it's all about listening/understanding about other person and guiding/making them experience whatever favourite song they always dream or think about, without including any of your prior expectation and not judzing them on the journey.

so everyone has a different genre of favourite song (sex, romance, friendship etc..), guiding them towards your interested genere. making yourself indulge in it by you being genuinely flueid, confident and experiencing geniune human pleasure.

being everyone busy, not experincing this level of novality in their day to day life if you are the person who can have and give it to another person then you will have most beautiful dating life.

PEACE !!