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So I then saw this chick in at school on Thursday (total co-incidence, was just going down there to pick up some transcripts), and after a brief convo, she messages me last night saying "she wants to talk in person soon because she needs to find closure". I told straight up that I don't think closure exists, but I guess I can talk about whatever she thinks she needs to discuss and to hit me up when she's ready for that.

Now, to be honest, I said yes, but I don't know what the point of this really is. It feels like at best it's gonna be a hour long shit test to test my new frame, and at worst a hour of her talking and trying her hamster our break-up to me. Part of me is saying that I should just go as it'll be a good test of my new frame to pass all the shit tests and try to hit it again (probably just my ego talking) and another part doesn't even want to give her the validation of my time and attention whatsoever (my butthurt beta ego?). We've been broken up for 6 months now, and really feel like the only closure is just me staying on my path of improvement, but I don't know what "closure" is in woman powertalk. Anybody have any experience will an ex who wanted "closure" after a raise in your SMV? Any advice/ Should I just flake?