Hello,

So I've been hooking up with this girl for a while now and last night she brought up the talk about sort of where we stand.

I should mention she lives few hours away from me and although she'll occasionally make the trip up here I don't get to see her much at all.

In any case she brought up the fact that I tend to go out dancing on my own and she gets the impression I'm treating her as a FWB which she finds disrespectful. So I tell her it sounds like she is looking for some sort of commitment from me which she rebuts by saying "not commitment from you." Not sure if she was being honest or just defensive.

I tell her that I might go out now and then but that I'm not just going to sit around at home and that I'm single which seemed to make her more upset. I've been trying to avoid this talk altogether since I don't think she's LTR material and would like to keep seeing her but it seems like she's getting impatient.

We ended up fucking after and and when I dropped her off we ended saying we'd like to see each other again but I'm not sure what to make of the whole ordeal.