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[–]SpotCheck-Billy-74 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m just so glad women feel this way about guys sometimes also. Make the move. You’d rather regret something you DID as opposed to something you didn’t do. And if you guys are truly friends - that shouldn’t ruin it.
[–]diceykoala -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Have some fucking respect for the girl he is seeing.
Its 2020, women need to wake up to reality. I've seen this too many times. It's ok for women to do but if a man gets caught he will get slapped and shit. If you want equal rights and the power dynamic of the real world to be equal. Time to act like a grown ass woman. Meaning dont be flirting with another womans man, dont be getting all touchy and steamy and shit. What makes you think that's ok?
[–]tired-intj 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
they’re not together nor exclusive
I’ve said that this is one of the issues that’s stopping me from sleeping with me
even tho that’s one of the issues he should be the one being careful about not getting involved with other girls, not me. You said I’m the one not being respectful and not acting grown but didn’t say anything about him getting touchy with me while he’s talking to another girl. The underlying misogyny and slutshaming in this...ew
[–]diceykoala 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm also intj. Respekt. Original post was taken down. I may have read it wrong but I didnt see anything about him and her not being exclusive so I assumed they were. Have all the fun you want, but when she comes screaming and breaking car windows, dont wonder why.
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