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[–][deleted] [score hidden] 5 years ago stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link
This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.
Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like:
As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.
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[–]PSADNAWR 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Their response to you has nothing to do with you, so focus on doing and saying things that YOU are comfortable with. Relax and think less so that you can replicate and improve upon what you like to do.
[–]norwegiandoggo 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
What negative consequences to flirting do you fear?
[–]sarcasticgeek15[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Them misinterpreting my message and thinking of me as a creep. I'm comfortable harmlessly flirting with someone I Already know than someone who's DMs I just slid into
[–]norwegiandoggo 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
There's always this possibility of coming across as a creep. But you know what? That's not fully within your control. And if you want to hit on ANY woman in ANY setting, you risk coming across as a creep.
The important thing to remember is that if a girl thinks you're a creep, it does NOT mean you're a creep. You have to defend your own self worth in the battle of negative self talk and shame. Hitting on girls is normal and OK. If they think you're a creep, just take the loss and move on. It's completely fine :-) almost every guy who is in a relationship today has come across as a creep to some girls sometimes.
[–]sarcasticgeek15[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I wouldn't have doubted myself if it were a bar or arcade, but since these are the girls I'll be going to college with for the next 3 years, things might get awkward, because one says to another and then all the girls in my college might think of me as a creep.
[–]norwegiandoggo 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I find in these cases it's perfectly okay to ask them out on a virtual date. Skip the flirting and sexual jokes etc. Just go straight the gentleman route or asking them out. If they say no or make excuses then take the loss and remain friendly but back off a bit. It's completely okay. I have asked two coworkers out like this in the past and it was never an issue. One said yes the other said no. It was never a big deal and they respected that I was up front, gentleman-like and matter-of-fact with it. That's much better than flirting or saying something sexual if you don't know how it will go over.
[–]sarcasticgeek15[S] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This sounds really helpful. Hopefully the college starts soon, but I'm definitely gonna use this advice. Thanks mate :)
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