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Approached a girl in the bus station. Used situational opener, asking for directions, she was investing and willingly showing me, i said i liked her style, asked if she works in fashion, she said i wish, i am studying, i did cold reading that she is a social worker and she said no i am too sensitive for that. I broke rapport saying oh we will never along, i am leaving and did a false takeaway. More conversation, comfort, I related to her sensitivity. Then I number closed, she said that I'm not allowed out during lock down and so does she. I said we are rebellions, let's do some rebellion party sometime. I asked what she is doing now, the bus came and we kiss chicked. she said let's do something on the weekend, i said maybe take the next bus, she declined.

What did i do well

  1. I saw a girl and fucking went for it with all my testosterone
  2. I looked away when she looked away to give disinterest back
  3. I showed willingness to show away, creating attraction, it felt like it was done in the right time
  4. teased her by mimicking her in a funny way
  5. I related to what she was saying in a brilliant way
  6. I physically escalated on good note, with bumbs on her forearms it seemed natural and flowing
  7. i asked her to send me a message with her name
  8. i send her a message on the set
  9. i number closed
  10. i was relaxed and dominant
  11. i was talking smooth 'bis a la covid'
  12. I used we.

What i did not do well

  1. I was overthinking the message to send her afterwards
  2. I went for a chick kiss during times where this is not the best idea
  3. I pushed for an instant date when she already suggested to do something over the weekend and the bus was already here, those i stayed and it looked a bit needy me staying there when she goes up to the bus
  4. My sms opener may have been try hard

Lessons and insights for my sms

  1. Try to not overthink things, stick to some principle then execute the best i can.
  2. If i want my first message to be pinging value, make her laugh, then focus on that. Then do a tease later. Don't force it if it doesn't feel right.
  3. I can always tease on the second message, instead of trying hard to copy.
  4. a tease does not have to be harsh, it can be as simple as : giving her a silly nickname, mention something embarrassing about her, some innocent fault she has
  5. If i am in doubt it is better not to copy lines, but stick to what i know and feel is right
  6. She was much younger then me and she could feel good with the interaction itself and then get in her head with the age objection, i shell remember to not take it personally

Routines and gambits

  1. I broke rapport : You are too sensitive, oh we will never get along, i am walking away.
  2. Had her send me her name, talking about misspelling my name
  3. Remembered instant date

Question:
1. What do i do when she writes my name in her contacts first, in which case it is difficult to justify her sending the first message because of misspelling my name

  1. Can you recommend a good FB or TG group for posting field reports

Action for next time:

  1. Get better with text messages. Learn more about it, get more skilled about it. Stick to main things i know about it and do what feels right.
  2. If a girl offers a time to meet and shows interest, and the situation is not best for instant date, then no need to push further
  3. Fuck her.