Late to the Game and now feeling stressed about it, Advice from late bloomers?

2020-11-07T16:24:55+00:00

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2020-11-07T04:46:17+00:00

At 21 you are not even close to being a late bloomer. Get over yourself brother 💪🏻 lol

tofofa · 2020-11-07T04:37:52+00:00

There is a documentary called “40 year old virgin”. 21 is a great age to lose your virginity. Nobody had that much crazy sex in their teens anyways.

You’re goal now is to keep you’re momentum up. Go out. Approach. Escalate.

Reading articles and posts is great but it’s not a replacement for getting out there.

2020-11-07T06:15:04+00:00

Dude, lost time and opportunity? Shit man, chillout :) You're so fucking young, trust me. Welcome and enjoy the process :)

Icy_History_4728 · 2020-11-07T14:12:34+00:00

21 late bloomer? Jeez man.

Vvzy · 2020-11-07T09:58:35+00:00

Ay man, after reading you short story here, I think you can be so confident with yourself. You've achieved so much with the 21 years of your life which most people will never achieve in a lifetime. Also you are everything but a late bloomer. You actually hopped pretty early on this topic, I mean most guys dive into seduction around their late 20s to early 30s. I think you are on the right path. Just continue to pursue your goals in life and you will automatically grow as a person and further develop your true inner confidence about yourself and who you are. This will draw girls automatically to you so you don't need to worry bout that. Tho you have to put time and effort to actually get comfy with girls and become able to truly seduce them, but you have plenty of time for that imo. :)

2020-11-07T10:39:54+00:00

what you are doing by making yourself better is so much more important than this idea that you are behind in your women-chasing/womanizing skills, but I get it that it might not feel that way right now.

There will be guys that could give you a master class in chasing girls, but won't have a career or a future. You don't want that, trust me, because that is a poverty that is more frustrating than where you came from.

There will be guys that could give you a master class and can do it all -- they are out there, but are few and far between.

I suggest you view yourself as a holy temple and do not debase yourself further -- and especially with any women you wouldn't want to be with for a longer time. Put sex outside of marriage on the lowest rung, keep achieving, and you will have more than you could ever want from a relationship sooner than you think.

2020-11-07T14:31:59+00:00

So as others have been saying not really a late bloomer. 46% of the population report that there first time was in collage so your really just on track for what most people do.

Then the second idea is that your not going to make up for lost time. Your past is your past and no matter how good you get or where you decide you don't want to do it anymore there will be a period in your life where people did not value you as much as you would've liked. Game willl not change this and if you try to your only gonna get hurt. Its gonna hurt and yes it can make you feel down but its more important that you accept this and move on with your life to enjoy the future experiences you are going to have.

wallyboardwithwheel · 2020-11-07T14:48:01+00:00

maybe do more than just try to fuck them

Title	Late to the Game and now feeling stressed about it, Advice from late bloomers?
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Date	November 7, 2020 3:48 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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