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[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just be upfront with her, say I still like you and want to see you but constant texting socially exhausts you. Say when you see her you want it to be a special treat. Me and my boyfriend only text before we sleep tell each other about our days and give a lil night night text. I’d recommend that texting pattern especially if you’re busy, and then she still gets to text you and doesn’t have to be worried about getting ignored!
Everyone on here will tell you to run from people with these types of flaws but if you’re the man for the job there’s no harm in seeing this girl as long as it doesn’t get toxic! Honestly just seems like she’s a little anxious, being really open and communicating with her will help! Wish you the best of luck!
[–]quinnmcd 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
How to deal with needy girls?
you don't
How do I respond to her constant "why are you ignoring me?"
These are not the type of girls you want to be involved with. There's nothing attractive about being insecure and needy. You will eventually get emotionally drained and that's not good for yourself mentally. Why you want to be constantly questioned about every action you make? Do you seriously think being with a girl like this will make you happy?
Do what's best drop her and move one to someone less crazy.
[–]simbuah -5 points-4 points-3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thank you, this was a good response. She is helping me out with school a shit ton, plus I don't have many options right now (only one other fb who's family has the virus atm so I'm not fucking with that). I know this behavior is a huge red flag for dating, but the thing is I'm just looking for casual relationships right now so I'm not looking for ms. perfect.
[–]Shallontourage_Kim 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Girls don’t understand the concept of men withdrawing, men need independence to feel manly but girls need connection to feel feminine. Girls feel like its mean to ”ignore” someone and therefor doesn’t understand it. Its not needy, its a gender difference that leads to this problem. Right now she’s going through an emotional roller-coaster thinking you became bored with her and your behavior changed because she’s doing something wrong. She’s chasing you, this is not something guys should strive to make girls do. Maybe you could communicate better that she has nothing to worry about and then she would not be needy.
[–]Shallontourage_Kim 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nevermind you’re not looking for something serious. Well keep doing what you’re doing so she can dump you
[–]Adventurous_Natural 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Dont know why u got down voted what u said is spot on.
[–]Shallontourage_Kim 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Thanks and well some people don’t like hearing it I think because they are like So you’re saying I’m feminine and not a real man?And same for women. They think it’s stereotypical. And some people reject the idea of masculine and feminine traits. It all is part of a greater context 🤷♀️
[–]Adventurous_Natural 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Feminine men tend to attract masculine women ( does NOT mean thats faulted!! She is simply more aggressive in life ) and very masculine men attract very feminine girsl . Got a friend who is butt ugly but is a very very masculine ( not to be confused with being a DICK, nice guy) , one of the most stunning girly girls iv seen was crazy for him
[–]Shallontourage_Kim 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes I agree!
♥︎The dynamic in the relationship is usually masculine/feminine. Be it two girls, two boys or a girl and a boy.
♡︎So undeniably opposite “energies” attract!
♥︎Gender determines: men have 10x more testosterone and women 10x more estrogen than each other. We still have both.
♡︎Society can reward certain traits and shame others. Changing who you truly are creates cognitive dissonance. Therefor gender shouldn’t be superior/inferior nor neglected. But understood and equally appreciated.
♥︎Old society controlled what a man should be and what a woman wasn’t allowed to be, new society controls what women should be and what men aren’t allowed to be. 𝑃𝑒𝑛𝑑𝑒𝑙𝑢𝑚 𝑠𝑤𝑖𝑛𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑜𝑝𝑝𝑜𝑠𝑖𝑡𝑒 𝑠𝑖𝑑𝑒 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑛𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟 𝑗𝑢𝑠𝑡
♡︎Gender roles are about cleaning, working, acceptable sex habits,make up, fashion, dancing. This could be neutral, be it that you don’t have to act different to engage with it. It’s only taught so.
♥︎physical strength, eye for aesthetics (enviromentally), motivated to work hard to satisfy “ego“, in touch with feelings and taking care of people. assertive. receptive. These traits are linked w testosterone and estrogen.
♡︎You can express masculinity and femininity in various degrees and in different ways. Theres not one right way. 𝐸𝑛𝑑𝑙𝑒𝑠𝑠 𝑐𝑜𝑚𝑏𝑖𝑛𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛𝑠
♥︎if your inner being is that of someone with a different gender, that’s natural too!
[–]TheDevilPutD -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't engage. If she gives you a hard time on the date, tell her "I'm on a date with you, aren't I? Not with some other girl, but with you. What more do you want?"
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