I (M18) never enjoyed casual dating, I found a girl that seems like the person I want to be exclusive with.

2020-12-06T18:01:59+00:00

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TheCuriousBread · 2020-12-06T17:56:15+00:00

Bruh, y'all literally only went on a date twice. This isn't even close to being out of the "feeler" phase yet. Do I say but not as I do cos god damn it it hurts when someone you like is romantically involved in others if you're a mono kinda guy like me, but the quickest way you can scare someone off is coming off as needy or desperate and calling for exclusive after 2 dates is definitely in that range. Maybe after 5-10 dates, escalate physically and then drop the "what are we?" question and then lead off to question of exclusivity.

Edit: not even sure if it's a date, if you say it's a "hang out".

Title	I (M18) never enjoyed casual dating, I found a girl that seems like the person I want to be exclusive with.
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Date	December 6, 2020 5:53 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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