First of all, thank you guys. I've swallowed the Red Pill nearly a year ago and in less than a year I fixed my crappy life, starting from being a 25 years old beta/virgin/loser/talentless/Mr. Nice Guy etc. (the whole package). However, I think I still need to metabolize a lot of stuff... To sum up, in just 2 months I scored an hot chick and I'm currently in a serious relationship with my high school crush, a very feminine & hot Italian woman in her twenties who does whatever she can to please me.
I'm looking for a LTR and, after we started seeing each other, I noticed these potential red flags, but I do not know if I'm exaggerating or I should dump her: 1)We had sex on the second date (she said that she had strong feelings for me 7 years ago, during high school, but she was too shy at the time. She said that she felt ashamed for having sex so soon) 2)She said she had one night stands in a couple of occasions...this bugs me 3)She admitted having one (failed) LTR and sex/oral sex with a total of 8 men (me included) during her lifespan...Is this too much? Is partner count something really important for a functional relationship? 4) The thing that really bugs me, she confessed it in a really ashamed way last night... One of her previous partners didn't tell her(when she was 18) that he was a young looking 30-something married man (with 2 kids) when they started dating. After discovering this fact, she had sex with him 5 more times before ending the thing (because of his wife and kids).
I am a family oriented man, so i think that at some point I would like to settle down and have kids. As a former(??) Mr Nice Guy, I developed a oneitis for her, and my judgement is obfuscated... What do you suggest? Is she marriage-worth material and I'm exaggerating or should I stop considering her as my girlfriend or dump her immediately?
Edit: Thank you guys. I have a long way to go, I may have started fixing my job, my body and my game, but my attitude towards women is basically still the same: I'm still the same beta Mr Nice Guy deep down to the core.
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