Get along pretty well with girl from university, would want more

2021-01-20T20:31:44+00:00

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NapierNoyes · 2021-01-20T07:35:59+00:00

Can relate. Have missed lots of cues like this before. I’d suggest taking a sip of your coffee when at her apartment, smiling and saying: ‘.... are we dating? Is that’s what’s happening here? Cause this feels pretty awesome...’ and if she replies in the affirmative, ‘yeah... I guess maybe we are’ (or something) then go in for a first kiss. If she says no, then just say ‘cool’ and keep working on the assignment. But you should escalate at least by words and also by touching - her arms, elbows, a knee etc - to see he reaction. Most likely, no response is ‘keep going’ and her pulling away or saying ‘we’re not like that’ is a hard no. I’ve been in a situation like you detail many times and done nothing, and later the girl has said ‘you didn’t even try’ or something to that effect. I realise now that of a girl is spending that much time with you, inviting you over etc, there’s a good chance she wants more. Test for that, and if not, no worries! Don’t be attached to the outcome. Others here probably have way better advice but I certainly can see my experience and learnings in your situation. Make a move.

Typical-Ad-4915 · 2021-01-20T11:56:45+00:00

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Title	Get along pretty well with girl from university, would want more
Author	danirover
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	January 19, 2021 9:15 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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