"Procrastination" is one of the most commonly used word in English language. But did you know that just by using this word you can procrastinate? When you think about procrastination, it causes you to feel in a certain way that triggers a chain of thought related to procrastination and the loop goes on and you procrastinate even more.

But did you know there are other languages in the world where people don't use this term that much? It's a very uncommon word in some languages. So people who speak that language have low chance of overthinking about procrastination.

The same goes for Approach Anxiety. If you believe in that AA. Probably, you're a victim of social conformity.

You may think, "Even top dating gurus feel approach anxiety so it is completely natural for me to feel this anxiety."

What you don't know is you're being a victim of social conformity through your own bullshit reasoning. God knows how many bullshit beliefs humans have crated and reenforced for their own suffering.

After I say Hi to a girl. I maintain a comfortable distance, stand still and give strong eye contact.

I don't give strong eye contact to "act confident" but because I enjoy it. A certain flavor of energy comes from intense eye contact. I enjoy the conversation which gives me motivation to approach the next day and the loop continues.

Be wise while increasing your vocabulary. Your choice of words will affect your dating and your life.