Do girls in their 20s always have multiple guys pursuing them?

2021-02-10T19:44:51+00:00

No. I guess maybe if you’re some Instagram influencer

2021-02-10T19:54:27+00:00

Probably a few guys beating round the bush.

Actively pursuing though? That's different.

2021-02-10T21:37:31+00:00

Short answer: No, although about 20%-30% of them do have guys constantly hitting on them and flooding their inbox, mostly because they want it like that and allow that environment. Also, No, I think a very small minority of girls (above average and below) ever take themselves off the market long term.

Long answer:

People come in many flavors, and there is literally millions women (and men) who don't care for the surface level validation they get by responding to a stranger that messaged them on Social Media. IME as well, I have courted girls that have guys chasing them in the background, and its just those girls and the flavor they come in. They really like the validation and how it makes "Them" feel to be pursued. Some women simply come in more "casual" flavors and like to be wanted, while others come in "complex" flavors and have no interest in being the next most popular flavor. They would rather interact with men that have more discerning tastes. If a bowl a vanilla ice cream is offered, sure I'm gonna eat it. However, if I'm really craving what I want, I'm gonna get Ben & Jerry's chunky monkey.

Some people like to eat a lot of ice cream, some people just once a month is fine. There is no wrong or right amount to eat and every flavor is the right one for the person offering up their ice cream to the consumer. You just got to figure what kind of flavor she is, and it may take more than one bite to realize what flavor she comes in. Yes, its true, most of the ice cream out there is gonna be a more common and generic flavor and be cheaper per scoop. Just as there will be fewer flavors that are more expensive per scoop, have unique flavors, and only come in a size that has less than 5 servings.

Remember this flavor analogy works for both men and women and is a two way street. Just because you are a Hagen-Daz, doesn't mean she won't be eying the gallon tub of Kroger brand. People taste change over time too. Finally, the competition is fierce in this industry, and every year that goes buy, the flavor and quality is going down while the more successful large brands buy out the unique brands and flavor. There are still very good high quality ice creams out there just waiting to be found.

TL:DR People come in flavors, some are the generic 1 gallon tubs of vanilla ice cream, and will like being that flavor, tolerated, liked by most, shared with many. Some are Ben & Jerry's Chunky Monkey and want to be liked by the very few who search for that flavor and express their interests.

Title	Do girls in their 20s always have multiple guys pursuing them?
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Date	February 10, 2021 7:42 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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