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[–]FlowLikeConcrete 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hard to say, exactly. What I can tell is what worked for me. There used to be a somewhat popular notion of "frame battles". In essence the frame of mind you put yourself in. What really did it for me was going out purely for my own enjoyment. I know this may sound stupid, but whenever I went out to a concert/show/ or bar, I did it to enjoy my time with myself. I set up the expectation that I was going to have a good time with FlowLikeConcrete and take myself out on a date. Next thing you know girls are staring at me and I already have their attention without even trying. Its like 90% of the approach is done and I'll I have to do is smile and say hi. I'm actually getting cold approached by the girl on some occasions (although rare). In essence, I made myself be the fun energy that they wanted to be a part of. I didn't have to prove I am a fun person to hang out with, I was the proof.
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