Upon delving into the philosophy of dating, both for myself and other men, I've come to understand why many of us struggle to find success. It seems that a significant number of men are willing to compromise their own happiness, identity, morals, boundaries, and self-respect in order to fit the mold of what a particular woman desires. However, just because a woman prefers a certain type of man does not make it inherently right. For instance, if all women were attracted to murderers, would it be justifiable to become one?

In my view, men should remain true to themselves, irrespective of whether others, especially women, approve of us. I pose this question to you all: Are you prepared to sacrifice your self-respect and personal boundaries for the sake of being with the most physically attractive woman? Or, are you willing to be the person you truly want to be, someone who prioritizes your own happiness and self-respect, even if it means not being universally liked? You will be surprised that women will pick the second option because those men can't be manipulated. Be good/bad because you want to be, don't be good/bad for the approval of others.